<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 3em"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 20px"></span></p><p style="PAGE-BREAK-AFTER: auto; TEXT-JUSTIFY: inter-ideograph; TEXT-ALIGN: justify; PAGE-BREAK-BEFORE: auto; LINE-HEIGHT: 3em; TEXT-INDENT: 31px; DIRECTION: ltr; TEXT-AUTOSPACE: ideograph-numeric; VERTICAL-ALIGN: auto"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 20px"><strong style="FONT-VARIANT: normal; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: windowtext; FONT-SIZE: 16px; VERTICAL-ALIGN: baseline">第一、忌娇惯溺爱</strong></span></p><p style="PAGE-BREAK-AFTER: auto; TEXT-JUSTIFY: inter-ideograph; TEXT-ALIGN: justify; PAGE-BREAK-BEFORE: auto; LINE-HEIGHT: 3em; TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DIRECTION: ltr; TEXT-AUTOSPACE: ideograph-numeric; VERTICAL-ALIGN: auto"><span style="FONT-VARIANT: normal; FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; COLOR: windowtext; FONT-SIZE: 20px; VERTICAL-ALIGN: baseline"> 开口不离“好”，出门不离抬，吃饭任其要，穿衣任其挑，就会养成儿童任性的性格。父母“爱子—溺子—误子”，这往往是现实生活中一些青少年步入歧途的三部曲。</span></p><p style="PAGE-BREAK-AFTER: auto; TEXT-JUSTIFY: inter-ideograph; TEXT-ALIGN: justify; PAGE-BREAK-BEFORE: auto; LINE-HEIGHT: 3em; TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DIRECTION: ltr; TEXT-AUTOSPACE: ideograph-numeric; VERTICAL-ALIGN: auto"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 20px"><span style="FONT-VARIANT: normal; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: windowtext; FONT-SIZE: 16px; VERTICAL-ALIGN: baseline"> </span><strong style="FONT-VARIANT: normal; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: windowtext; FONT-SIZE: 16px; VERTICAL-ALIGN: baseline">第二、忌袒护纵容</strong></span></p><p style="PAGE-BREAK-AFTER: auto; TEXT-JUSTIFY: inter-ideograph; TEXT-ALIGN: justify; PAGE-BREAK-BEFORE: auto; LINE-HEIGHT: 3em; TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DIRECTION: ltr; TEXT-AUTOSPACE: ideograph-numeric; VERTICAL-ALIGN: auto"><span style="FONT-VARIANT: normal; FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; COLOR: windowtext; FONT-SIZE: 20px; VERTICAL-ALIGN: baseline"> 在日常生活中，孩子当众做错了事，家长明知不对，却以种种理由加以庇护和掩盖，其结果必然使孩子不能正确对待缺点和错误。</span></p><p style="PAGE-BREAK-AFTER: auto; TEXT-JUSTIFY: inter-ideograph; TEXT-ALIGN: justify; PAGE-BREAK-BEFORE: auto; LINE-HEIGHT: 3em; TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DIRECTION: ltr; TEXT-AUTOSPACE: ideograph-numeric; VERTICAL-ALIGN: auto"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 20px"><span style="FONT-VARIANT: normal; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: windowtext; FONT-SIZE: 16px; VERTICAL-ALIGN: baseline"> </span><strong style="FONT-VARIANT: normal; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: windowtext; FONT-SIZE: 16px; VERTICAL-ALIGN: baseline">第三、忌哄骗</strong></span></p><p style="PAGE-BREAK-AFTER: auto; TEXT-JUSTIFY: inter-ideograph; TEXT-ALIGN: justify; PAGE-BREAK-BEFORE: auto; LINE-HEIGHT: 3em; TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DIRECTION: ltr; TEXT-AUTOSPACE: ideograph-numeric; VERTICAL-ALIGN: auto"><span style="FONT-VARIANT: normal; FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; COLOR: windowtext; FONT-SIZE: 20px; VERTICAL-ALIGN: baseline"> 有些家长图一时安宁，不惜编</span><a style="FONT-VARIANT: normal; FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; COLOR: windowtext; FONT-SIZE: 20px; VERTICAL-ALIGN: baseline; TEXT-DECORATION: underline" href="http://news.39.net/hxw/"><span style="FONT-VARIANT: normal; FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; COLOR: windowtext; FONT-SIZE: 20px; VERTICAL-ALIGN: baseline">造假</span></a><span style="FONT-VARIANT: normal; FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; COLOR: windowtext; FONT-SIZE: 20px; VERTICAL-ALIGN: baseline">话欺骗孩子，这样耳懦目染，容易使孩子效仿父母，养成虚伪不诚实的品格。</span></p><p style="PAGE-BREAK-AFTER: auto; TEXT-JUSTIFY: inter-ideograph; TEXT-ALIGN: justify; PAGE-BREAK-BEFORE: auto; LINE-HEIGHT: 3em; TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DIRECTION: ltr; TEXT-AUTOSPACE: ideograph-numeric; VERTICAL-ALIGN: auto"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 20px"><span style="FONT-VARIANT: normal; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: windowtext; FONT-SIZE: 16px; VERTICAL-ALIGN: baseline"> </span><strong style="FONT-VARIANT: normal; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: windowtext; FONT-SIZE: 16px; VERTICAL-ALIGN: baseline">第四、忌讽刺</strong></span></p><p style="PAGE-BREAK-AFTER: auto; TEXT-JUSTIFY: inter-ideograph; TEXT-ALIGN: justify; PAGE-BREAK-BEFORE: auto; LINE-HEIGHT: 3em; TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DIRECTION: ltr; TEXT-AUTOSPACE: ideograph-numeric; VERTICAL-ALIGN: auto"><span style="FONT-VARIANT: normal; FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; COLOR: windowtext; FONT-SIZE: 20px; VERTICAL-ALIGN: baseline"> 对孩子讽刺挖苦，以为可以“激发”上进，结果适得其反。</span></p><p style="PAGE-BREAK-AFTER: auto; TEXT-JUSTIFY: inter-ideograph; TEXT-ALIGN: justify; PAGE-BREAK-BEFORE: auto; LINE-HEIGHT: 3em; TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DIRECTION: ltr; TEXT-AUTOSPACE: ideograph-numeric; VERTICAL-ALIGN: auto"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 20px"><span style="FONT-VARIANT: normal; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: windowtext; FONT-SIZE: 16px; VERTICAL-ALIGN: baseline"> </span><strong style="FONT-VARIANT: normal; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: windowtext; FONT-SIZE: 16px; VERTICAL-ALIGN: baseline">第五、忌苛求</strong></span></p><p style="PAGE-BREAK-AFTER: auto; TEXT-JUSTIFY: inter-ideograph; TEXT-ALIGN: justify; PAGE-BREAK-BEFORE: auto; LINE-HEIGHT: 3em; TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DIRECTION: ltr; TEXT-AUTOSPACE: ideograph-numeric; VERTICAL-ALIGN: auto"><span style="FONT-VARIANT: normal; FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; COLOR: windowtext; FONT-SIZE: 20px; VERTICAL-ALIGN: baseline"> 父母对孩子“恨铁不成钢”，凡事都要尽善尽美，稍有不顺便大加训斥，使子女无所适从，思想感到压抑和束缚，时间长了孩子有可能走向反面，我行我素。</span></p><p style="PAGE-BREAK-AFTER: auto; TEXT-JUSTIFY: inter-ideograph; TEXT-ALIGN: justify; PAGE-BREAK-BEFORE: auto; LINE-HEIGHT: 3em; TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DIRECTION: ltr; TEXT-AUTOSPACE: ideograph-numeric; VERTICAL-ALIGN: auto"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 20px"><span style="FONT-VARIANT: normal; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: windowtext; FONT-SIZE: 16px; VERTICAL-ALIGN: baseline"> </span><strong style="FONT-VARIANT: normal; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: windowtext; FONT-SIZE: 16px; VERTICAL-ALIGN: baseline">第六、忌放任</strong></span></p><p style="PAGE-BREAK-AFTER: auto; TEXT-JUSTIFY: inter-ideograph; TEXT-ALIGN: justify; PAGE-BREAK-BEFORE: auto; LINE-HEIGHT: 3em; TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DIRECTION: ltr; TEXT-AUTOSPACE: ideograph-numeric; VERTICAL-ALIGN: auto"><span style="FONT-VARIANT: normal; FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; COLOR: windowtext; FONT-SIZE: 20px; VERTICAL-ALIGN: baseline"> 对孩子不加引导和教育，放任自流，任其所为，不尽家长责任，后果难以预料。</span></p><p style="PAGE-BREAK-AFTER: auto; TEXT-JUSTIFY: inter-ideograph; TEXT-ALIGN: justify; PAGE-BREAK-BEFORE: auto; LINE-HEIGHT: 3em; TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DIRECTION: ltr; TEXT-AUTOSPACE: ideograph-numeric; VERTICAL-ALIGN: auto"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 20px"><span style="FONT-VARIANT: normal; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: windowtext; FONT-SIZE: 16px; VERTICAL-ALIGN: baseline"> </span><strong style="FONT-VARIANT: normal; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: windowtext; FONT-SIZE: 16px; VERTICAL-ALIGN: baseline">第七、忌打骂体罚</strong></span></p><p style="PAGE-BREAK-AFTER: auto; TEXT-JUSTIFY: inter-ideograph; TEXT-ALIGN: justify; PAGE-BREAK-BEFORE: auto; LINE-HEIGHT: 3em; TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DIRECTION: ltr; TEXT-AUTOSPACE: ideograph-numeric; VERTICAL-ALIGN: auto"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; COLOR: windowtext; FONT-SIZE: 20px; VERTICAL-ALIGN: baseline"> 现实生活中，有些家长信奉“不打不成器”的信条，不能以理服人，而是打骂、体罚，结果这样不但起不到教育的目的，反而损伤了孩子的自尊心，往往产生感情对立。</span></p><p style="PAGE-BREAK-AFTER: auto; TEXT-JUSTIFY: inter-ideograph; TEXT-ALIGN: justify; PAGE-BREAK-BEFORE: auto; LINE-HEIGHT: 3em; TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DIRECTION: ltr; TEXT-AUTOSPACE: ideograph-numeric; VERTICAL-ALIGN: auto"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 20px"><span style="FONT-VARIANT: normal; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: windowtext; FONT-SIZE: 16px; VERTICAL-ALIGN: baseline"> </span><strong style="FONT-VARIANT: normal; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: windowtext; FONT-SIZE: 16px; VERTICAL-ALIGN: baseline">第八、忌注意力不集中</strong></span></p><p style="PAGE-BREAK-AFTER: auto; TEXT-JUSTIFY: inter-ideograph; TEXT-ALIGN: justify; PAGE-BREAK-BEFORE: auto; LINE-HEIGHT: 3em; TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DIRECTION: ltr; TEXT-AUTOSPACE: ideograph-numeric; VERTICAL-ALIGN: auto"><span style="FONT-VARIANT: normal; FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; COLOR: windowtext; FONT-SIZE: 20px; VERTICAL-ALIGN: baseline"> 要让孩子自己选择适宜的游戏和运动，培养他们注意力集中，专心地完成一项工作的能力，训练儿童持之以恒的毅力，做什么事都要有始有终。而不要反复要求孩子更换活动内容。</span></p><p style="PAGE-BREAK-AFTER: auto; TEXT-JUSTIFY: inter-ideograph; TEXT-ALIGN: justify; PAGE-BREAK-BEFORE: auto; LINE-HEIGHT: 3em; TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DIRECTION: ltr; TEXT-AUTOSPACE: ideograph-numeric; VERTICAL-ALIGN: auto"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 20px"><span style="FONT-VARIANT: normal; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: windowtext; FONT-SIZE: 16px; VERTICAL-ALIGN: baseline"> </span><strong style="FONT-VARIANT: normal; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: windowtext; FONT-SIZE: 16px; VERTICAL-ALIGN: baseline">第九、忌缺乏适应能力</strong></span></p><p style="PAGE-BREAK-AFTER: auto; TEXT-JUSTIFY: inter-ideograph; TEXT-ALIGN: justify; PAGE-BREAK-BEFORE: auto; LINE-HEIGHT: 3em; TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DIRECTION: ltr; TEXT-AUTOSPACE: ideograph-numeric; VERTICAL-ALIGN: auto"><span style="FONT-VARIANT: normal; FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; COLOR: windowtext; FONT-SIZE: 20px; VERTICAL-ALIGN: baseline"> 要训练儿童适应环境的能力，这样对孩子的发展是很有益的。</span></p><p style="PAGE-BREAK-AFTER: auto; TEXT-JUSTIFY: inter-ideograph; TEXT-ALIGN: justify; PAGE-BREAK-BEFORE: auto; LINE-HEIGHT: 3em; TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DIRECTION: ltr; TEXT-AUTOSPACE: ideograph-numeric; VERTICAL-ALIGN: auto"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 20px"><span style="FONT-VARIANT: normal; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: windowtext; FONT-SIZE: 16px; VERTICAL-ALIGN: baseline"> </span><strong style="FONT-VARIANT: normal; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: windowtext; FONT-SIZE: 16px; VERTICAL-ALIGN: baseline">第十、忌无控制力</strong></span></p><p style="PAGE-BREAK-AFTER: auto; TEXT-JUSTIFY: inter-ideograph; TEXT-ALIGN: justify; PAGE-BREAK-BEFORE: auto; LINE-HEIGHT: 3em; TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DIRECTION: ltr; TEXT-AUTOSPACE: ideograph-numeric; VERTICAL-ALIGN: auto"><span style="FONT-VARIANT: normal; FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; COLOR: windowtext; FONT-SIZE: 20px; VERTICAL-ALIGN: baseline"> 要训练儿童学会控制自己的情绪，包括控制自己不合理的要求和愿望。</span></p><p style="PAGE-BREAK-AFTER: auto; TEXT-JUSTIFY: inter-ideograph; TEXT-ALIGN: justify; PAGE-BREAK-BEFORE: auto; LINE-HEIGHT: 3em; TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DIRECTION: ltr; TEXT-AUTOSPACE: ideograph-numeric; VERTICAL-ALIGN: auto"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 20px"><span style="FONT-VARIANT: normal; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: windowtext; FONT-SIZE: 16px; VERTICAL-ALIGN: baseline"> </span><strong style="FONT-VARIANT: normal; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: windowtext; FONT-SIZE: 16px; VERTICAL-ALIGN: baseline">第十一、忌忧郁沉默</strong></span></p><p style="PAGE-BREAK-AFTER: auto; TEXT-JUSTIFY: inter-ideograph; TEXT-ALIGN: justify; PAGE-BREAK-BEFORE: auto; LINE-HEIGHT: 3em; TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DIRECTION: ltr; TEXT-AUTOSPACE: ideograph-numeric; VERTICAL-ALIGN: auto"><span style="FONT-VARIANT: normal; FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; COLOR: windowtext; FONT-SIZE: 20px; VERTICAL-ALIGN: baseline"> 要培养儿童乐观幽默的性格，切忌郁郁寡欢。</span></p><p style="PAGE-BREAK-AFTER: auto; TEXT-JUSTIFY: inter-ideograph; TEXT-ALIGN: justify; PAGE-BREAK-BEFORE: auto; LINE-HEIGHT: 3em; TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DIRECTION: ltr; TEXT-AUTOSPACE: ideograph-numeric; VERTICAL-ALIGN: auto"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 20px"><span style="FONT-VARIANT: normal; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: windowtext; FONT-SIZE: 16px; VERTICAL-ALIGN: baseline"> </span><strong style="FONT-VARIANT: normal; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: windowtext; FONT-SIZE: 16px; VERTICAL-ALIGN: baseline">第十二、忌依赖</strong></span></p><p style="PAGE-BREAK-AFTER: auto; TEXT-JUSTIFY: inter-ideograph; TEXT-ALIGN: justify; PAGE-BREAK-BEFORE: auto; LINE-HEIGHT: 3em; TEXT-INDENT: 0px; DIRECTION: ltr; TEXT-AUTOSPACE: ideograph-numeric; VERTICAL-ALIGN: auto"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; COLOR: windowtext; FONT-SIZE: 20px; VERTICAL-ALIGN: baseline"> 要让儿童经受一定的困难，学会克服困难从身心(性格和体格)两方面进行磨练。从小培养儿童独立的能力，是儿童心理健康的关键。</span></p><p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 3em"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 20px"> </span></p>
